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Updated on October 30, 2025October 30, 2025

Too Tired to Function? Why ADHD Moms Struggle With Burnout

Does this sound like you? If this does sound like you, you’re not alone. Many moms with ADHD are going through their day too tired …

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Updated on May 20, 2025May 20, 2025

Managing Your ADHD Means Asking Better Questions

In early sessions with new coaching clients, I often hear the same painful questions: “Why am I such a mess?” or “How do I fix …

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Understand the ADHD Brain
Updated on February 20, 2026May 8, 2025

Decoding the Cues of the ADHD Brain

Internal cues are like your brain and body’s notification system—they signal to us what we need in that moment. ADHD creates a lot of internal cues that often …

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Dopamine and the ADHD Brain
Updated on September 5, 2025January 11, 2024

How To Improve the Dopamine Dilemma for Kids with ADHD

The Dopamine Dilemma Dopamine is a feel-good chemical in our brain that is responsible for pleasure, but did you know that it is also responsible …

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Updated on September 17, 2025November 20, 2023

ADHD From Your Child’s Perspective

As a parent, our lives are constantly moving and keeping up with the demands of work, parenting, and managing a household is overwhelming. So, before …

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Updated on September 17, 2025May 11, 2023

How to Make Your Ideas Become a Reality When You Have ADHD

One strength that I consistently see in my clients is their amazing ability to generate ideas. The creative, fast-moving, out-of-the-box thinking that comes with having …

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Updated on September 6, 2025February 27, 2023

Struggling to Get Things Done? How to Overcome ADHD Overwhelm

The dreaded feeling of overwhelm is all too familiar for people with ADHD. Whether it is a big project at work or a simple task …

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Updated on September 17, 2025February 26, 2023

Overwhelmed By Parenting Your Child With ADHD? Five changes to make right now

Whether your child has been recently diagnosed with ADHD or it is something you have been dealing with for years, parenting and navigating ADHD can …

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Updated on September 6, 2025January 1, 2023

Forget Resolutions – Begin the New Year with Micro Goals

As we ring in the new year, it is common practice to declare your New Year’s resolution. Whether the goal is to exercise more, eat …

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Updated on September 6, 2025November 9, 2022

How To Balance Your Executive Function Bank Account

The executive function bank account is similar to your real bank account, but instead of depositing and withdrawing money, we use it as a reserve …

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That thought, “I’m not qualified to do this,” usua That thought, “I’m not qualified to do this,” usually shows up when you’re overwhelmed, not when you’re incapable.

Parenting with ADHD (especially when your child has ADHD too) asks a lot of your nervous system, your energy, and your mental load.

Needing support doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It means you’re human and tired!

💛 Save this for the next time your inner critic shows up

#ADHDParenting #ADHDMom #ADHD #ADHDParentSupport
Sometimes support can be more important than strat Sometimes support can be more important than strategy because a plan alone doesn’t take into account the capacity and needs of you and your child. Even the “perfect” strategy won’t work if the key supports aren’t in place.

Support can look different for everyone. It might mean adjusting a strategy to fit your child, offering extra scaffolding, giving yourself space to pause and recharge, asking for help from a partner or friend, setting up small routines that reduce overwhelm, or seeking guidance from someone who understands ADHD parenting.

Parenting is hard, and getting support is not a sign that you are failing. It means that you care enough to do what it takes to find a path that actually works.

#ADHDParenting #ADHDMomLife #adhd #ADHDParentSupport
Honoring your kids’ needs during the holidays does Honoring your kids’ needs during the holidays doesn’t make the season less magical, but it does make it more manageable. When you can accept that your family's holiday will look different from what you expected, you can start creating holiday magic that fits everyone's nervous system.

1. Protect downtime
Kids need breaks from the noise, events, and social pressure. Build in quiet pockets each day so they can reset before overwhelm hits.

2. Prep them ahead of time
Visuals, check-ins, and simple “here’s what’s next” cues reduce anxiety and help kids feel more in control.

3. Don’t force the magic
If it stresses you or your kids out, it’s okay to skip it. You can create meaningful holiday moments without forcing the picture-perfect version.

4. Create a sensory-friendly holiday
The holidays are filled with crowds, noise, and lights that can be very overwhelming. Explore calmer versions or bring coping tools (headphones, snacks, fidgets) to help with the sensory overwhelm.

5. Expect big feelings and build in recovery time
The holidays are filled with excitement, waiting, and changes in routine. Big emotions should be expected and not punished. Help your child recover after a meltdown by connecting with them and acknowledging how hard the holidays can feel. Understanding their overwhelm will help them feel calm and supported.

The holidays might look different, and that’s exactly what makes them manageable, meaningful, and magical in your own way.

#ADHDMom #ADHDParentingtips #ADHDholidays #ADHD #ADHDsupport
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If the holidays feel overwhelming, chaotic, or kin If the holidays feel overwhelming, chaotic, or kind of miserable, you’re not alone. Holiday overload is real, and it often steals the joy long before the celebrations even start.

That’s exactly why I created a free Holiday Survival Mini Guide for ADHD moms who secretly (or not-so-secretly) hate the holidays because of the noise, pressure, expectations, and nonstop mental load.

DM me the word HOLIDAY and I’ll send it straight to you.

Give yourself the gift of a calmer and lighter holiday season built for your brain.

#ADHDMom #ADHDFriendlyHolidays #ADHDHolidayOverwhelm #ADHDOverload #ADHDSupport #ADHD #ADHDParenting
Most ADHD moms don’t actually need more holiday ti Most ADHD moms don’t actually need more holiday tips — they need permission to stop doing the holidays in a way that burns them out.

The holidays can be loud, chaotic, and full of expectations, but you don’t have to run on empty to get through them. Simplifying, delegating, and adjusting traditions isn’t selfish—it’s survival, self-care, and showing up in the best way possible.

Give yourself permission to prioritize your energy, your nervous system, and your family’s connection. Small adjustments = calmer moments, more joy, and lasting memories.
🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

#ADHDMom #ADHDHolidaySurvival  #ADHD #ADHDParenting  #ADHDChrstimas
Holiday overwhelm isn’t a you-problem — it’s an AD Holiday overwhelm isn’t a you-problem — it’s an ADHD brain problem.

The holiday season requires more planning, more remembering, more emotional energy, and just more of everything. And the ADHD brain is already managing juggling a lot without the holiday extras!

So if you’re feeling scattered, behind, or overstimulated, it doesn’t mean you’re doing the holidays “wrong.” It means your brain is managing way more than usual.

During the busy holiday season, give yourself some grace. You’re not failing the holidays — the holidays are just a lot.

#ADHDMom #ADHDParenting #ADHDHolidays #ADHDchristmas #ADHDburnout
This year, I let go of the pressure to do everythi This year, I let go of the pressure to do everything the way it’s “supposed” to be done.

I simplified. I delegated. I used supports. I chose regulation over perfection.

And it made the entire day calmer, lighter, and more enjoyable for everyone.

Sometimes you just have to say fuck what’s expected and do what actually works for you.

That’s not failing the holiday—that’s ADHD wisdom, ADHD survival, and an ADHD win.

#ADHDMom #ADHDFriendly #ADHDHoliday #ADHD #ADHDsupport
Your family may not always understand why you need Your family may not always understand why you need breaks, why you leave early, or why you simplify plans, but your well-being matters more than meeting expectations. A regulated parent creates a regulated child.

Crowded rooms, loud conversations, shifting plans, and high expectations can overwhelm both your brain and your child’s nervous system faster than people realize.

You’re allowed to prioritize regulation over tradition.
You’re allowed to choose connection over perfection.
You’re allowed to set boundaries that keep everyone calm and safe.

You and your child deserve a day that feels manageable, grounded, and peaceful.

#ADHDMom #SensitiveKids #ADHDFriendly #HolidayParenting #adhdwomen #adhdparenting #adhdtips #adhdoverwhelm
Thanksgiving can feel like chaos for ADHD brains—t Thanksgiving can feel like chaos for ADHD brains—too many tasks, too many expectations, too much sensory input. It is possible to reduce the overewhelm and even enjoy the day.

1. Simplify the Day: Remember, you don’t have to do it all. Delegate what you can, and accept help without guilt. Ask guests to bring dishes, drinks, or help with setup and cleanup. Outsource when possible: pre-made or semi-prepared foods aren’t cheating - it's a smarter use of your time and energy! The goal isn’t perfection; it’s keeping your energy for the moments that matter.

2. Break the Day into Blocks: 
Chunking the day into sections makes it manageable. Instead of thinking about every single thing at once, focus on one block at a time. Give yourself short mental breaks and treat each block like its own mini-task. Small wins throughout the day add up!

3. Use Tools to Offload Your Thinking: 
Your brain doesn’t need to hold it all. Lists, timers, phone reminders, and sticky notes are ways to support your brain, not signs of weakness. Offloading tasks frees up mental space so you can focus on what’s happening right now instead of juggling a million things at once.

4. Adjust Your Expectations: 
The memories your family will remember aren’t the perfectly arranged table or the perfectly baked pie, but the moments of connection, laughter, and shared joy. Let go of unnecessary pressure and focus on what really matters: your family, your kids, and even a few quiet moments for yourself.🦃

#ADHDMom #ADHDFriendly #ADHDsurvival #ParentingWithADHD #ADHD
So many ADHD moms tell me they want to delegate, b So many ADHD moms tell me they want to delegate, but it feels harder than just doing it themselves. I get it, and I do this too!

🤓 Here’s why it’s so hard:

1. Control feels safe. ADHD often makes us hyper-aware of things slipping through the cracks. You’re used to being the one who remembers, fixes, and follows through, and doing it yourself feels faster and more reliable, even if it’s exhausting.

2. Executive function overload. Delegating isn’t just saying “do this” — it’s planning, explaining, remembering to follow up, and trusting it will get done. That’s a lot for a brain already juggling a million things.

3. Perfectionism & fear of judgment. You might worry: “They’ll do it wrong,” or “I’ll look lazy if I ask.” That fear keeps you holding the mental load alone.

4. Emotional load. ADHD moms often feel like they should handle it all. Asking for help can feel like admitting failure, even though it’s actually smart and necessary.

💡 What to try instead:

1. Start small. Delegate one tiny thing first — a single task you don’t have to micromanage.

2. Use clear instructions. Write it down, set reminders, or give visual cues to make it easier on both you and the person helping.

3. Practice the pause. Before jumping in, take a deep breath and remind yourself: “It’s okay if it’s not perfect. I’m making space for my energy.”

4. Celebrate small wins. Every time you let go of one task, acknowledge the progress — that’s real change.

💬 What’s one thing you could delegate this week?
If you find yourself snapping, forgetting appointm If you find yourself snapping, forgetting appointments, or feeling like you’re “failing,” it’s not a reflection of how much you care. It’s how ADHD shows up under stress, overload, and exhaustion.

𝑾𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔:
• Pause and take a breath before reacting. Even 5 seconds helps reset your brain.
• Use reminders, sticky notes, or alarms to capture what you might forget.
• Break big tasks into smaller steps so your working memory isn’t overloaded.
• Practice self-compassion — remind yourself that mistakes don’t erase your love or effort.
• Ask for help when you need it — delegation isn’t weakness, it’s smart energy management.

𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗺𝗼𝗺 — 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁𝘀.
My ADHD brain tried to convince me it would be fas My ADHD brain tried to convince me it would be faster to just do it myself. But today I paused, asked for help, and let it go.

That’s what progress looks like with ADHD. Small shifts, unlearning old coping patterns, and practicing the art of letting go. 

💬 What’s one thing you can take off your plate this week?
Some days, the goal isn’t to do more — it’s to do Some days, the goal isn’t to do more — it’s to do what matters most with the energy you have.

ADHD brains move in waves — energy rises, focus dips, and that’s okay.

What matters most is choosing compassion over guilt when the day doesn’t go as planned.

Remember - You’re not falling behind,  you’re honoring your limits.

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If it feels extra hard some days — that’s because If it feels extra hard some days — that’s because it is.

Every plan, every meltdown, every reminder is extra hard because you’re managing two sets of executive functions at once. It takes an incredible amount of energy, focus, and emotional regulation. This is the invisible load of parenting with ADHD that people don't see.

If you are feeling tired, unmotivated, or like you're barely keeping your head above water, be gentle with yourself. You’re doing so much more than you realize!

#adhdmom #adhdparenting #adhdwomen #adhdawareness #adhdcoach #adhdfamily #adhdhelp #anewwaytoadhd
Managing ADHD isn’t about forcing yourself to stic Managing ADHD isn’t about forcing yourself to stick to a rigid plan — it’s about planning with flexibility so your brain and energy can keep up. 

Maybe your Monday meal prep plan fell apart because you were drained after work not because you’re lazy, but because your energy dipped. What if you tried prepping on Sunday afternoon when you have more bandwidth? 

Learning to build flexibility into your routines so they can stretch and shift with you is the key to sustaining your energy throughout the week.

Here are some tips on how to plan for your shifting capacity:

- Break tasks into micro-steps: Instead of “clean the whole kitchen,” try “wash dishes for 10 minutes” or “clear one counter.”

- Prioritize energy, not time: Schedule high-focus tasks for when you naturally have more energy. Leave low-energy windows for simpler tasks.

- Build in buffer zones: Expect interruptions or slower days — don’t overfill your schedule.

- Use adjustable routines: Morning or evening routines can shift depending on your day. Even swapping the order of tasks is okay.

- Have flexible systems: Visual cues, checklists, and reminders can bend with your day instead of breaking.

Progress is made through small, thoughtful adjustments, not perfection.

Which of these strategies could make your week feel more doable? Drop a 🧠 if you’re trying flexible planning this week!

📬 Got a question about parenting or managing ADHD? DM me and it could be featured in the ADHD Mom Inbox!

#ADHD #ADHDWomen #ADHDLife #ADHDCommunity #ADHDSupport #ANewWayToADHD #ADHDMomInbox #ADHDMoms #adhdhelp
People who are successfully managing their ADHD ar People who are successfully managing their ADHD aren’t doing everything right, but they are doing things differently.

💡 They understand how ADHD shows up in their life — what triggers overwhelm, where their strengths shine, and how their brain truly works.

💬 They make mistakes. They practice self-compassion instead of shame. Mistakes become data, not failure.

🧩 They ask for help and use accountability intentionally — not as punishment, but as support.

🧠 They experiment until they find systems that align with how their brain works.

🎨 They keep things visual, simple, and interesting by designing an environment that grabs their attention and engages their brain.

⚡ They manage their energy, not just their time. They rest before they crash, and they notice what truly recharges them.

Remember, progress takes time. Tiny changes build momentum toward a calmer, more focused way of living.

👉 Which of these feels most like your next step right now?

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This week’s win: I paused and let myself rest for This week’s win: I paused and let myself rest for 5 minutes while my kids played instead of scrolling my phone.

It felt like such a tiny thing, but it made the next 30 minutes smoother for all of us.

Scrolling feels like a break, but it actually drains energy. Choosing real rest refuels you for the next parenting moment. ADHD brains need intentional refueling, not just distraction. Identifying your energy draining habits is the first step towards creating refueling routines that help you avoid burnout.

What’s your small win this week? Comment below 👇

#ADHD #ADHDCoach #ADHDWomen #ADHDMoms #ADHDAwareness #ADHDLife #ADHDSupport  #ADHDTips #ADHDBrain #ADHDCoaching #ADHDWinoftheWeek #ANewWaytoADHD
You may not be able to control the chaos, the nois You may not be able to control the chaos, the noise, or the endless demands — but you can protect your energy.

That means giving yourself permission to rest when you’re drained, saying no when your plate is full, and doing small things that refill your tank.

It’s so easy to get caught in the chaos — dishes, noise, notifications, overwhelm.
But sometimes the best thing you can do is pause the to-do list and reconnect with what is important to you.

Before you add another task to your list or pick up your phone to doom scroll — 

Ask Yourself: What’s draining me right now?
What’s helping me recharge?

Protecting your energy isn’t selfish. It’s how you stay grounded, patient, and present for yourself and your people.

#ADHD #ADHDCoach #ADHDWomen #ADHDMoms #ExecutiveFunction #energy #ADHDSupport #ADHDStruggles #ADHDTips #ADHDBrain #ADHDCoaching #ADHDHelp
Why we lose our cool 🤯 ➖Overstimulation – Too man Why we lose our cool 🤯

➖Overstimulation – Too many inputs at once (kids, chores, work stress) flood your brain’s processing system.

➖Emotional hijacking – The amygdala (your brain’s alarm center) signals danger or urgency. When this happens, the thinking part of our brain goes offline. That’s why yelling happens before you even think.

➖ADHD factor – Impulse control and working memory are affected. You might know the calm response, but it’s hard to retrieve it in the heat of the moment.

➖Frustration with repeated behavior – When you feel like you’ve “told them 100 times,” your brain interprets it as a threat to efficiency or success, triggering a fight response.

So it’s not that you want to yell — it’s that your brain is reacting to overwhelm faster than your reasoning brain can step in.

The good news is that there are ways to reduce the overwhelm and calm your brain 😮‍💨

➖Notice your early warning signs – clenching jaw, fast breathing, tense shoulders, racing thoughts.

➖Short pause – even a single exhale or a 3-second step back can interrupt the reflex.

➖Anchor yourself – a mantra like: “My child’s not giving me a hard time, they are having a hard time.”

➖Prep “scripts” ahead of time – knowing what you will say in tricky moments reduces the working memory load.

➖Reset regularly – mindfulness, movement, or even micro-breaks during high-stress times help your nervous system regulate so yelling becomes less automatic. Practice self-compassion when things get hard. 🩷

You are not alone. Parenting with ADHD is hard! What is your biggest parenting challenge?

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When your brain struggles to start, plan, or susta When your brain struggles to start, plan, or sustain focus, it’s not laziness — it’s wiring.

You’ve probably spent your whole life trying harder, only to feel like you’re coming up short again and again. The problem isn’t effort — it’s awareness.

You’re not lazy. You just haven’t identified which executive function challenges are getting in your way.

Once you understand how your brain works, you can build systems and structures that actually support you, rather than shaming you.

Here’s what I’ve learned about myself. I’m not lazy — I’m forgetful and I get bored easily. Now that I understand that, I’ve stopped sitting in shame and started using tools that work for me.

If this sounds like you too, know that you’re not alone — your brain just needs support, not judgment.

#ADHD #ADHDCoach #ADHDWomen #ADHDMoms #ExecutiveFunction #Neurodivergent #ADHDAwareness #ADHDLife #ADHDSupport #ADHDStruggles #ADHDTips 
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